{"id":2232,"date":"2026-05-24T14:25:41","date_gmt":"2026-05-24T14:25:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sophieyanyeelau.com\/?page_id=2232"},"modified":"2026-05-24T15:12:11","modified_gmt":"2026-05-24T15:12:11","slug":"personal","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sophieyanyeelau.com\/index.php\/personal\/","title":{"rendered":"PERSONAL ESSAYS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-4 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/amplifybookstore.com\/blogs\/from-the-author\/mother-tongue-or-mother-s-tongue-sophie-lau\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"795\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"2203\" src=\"https:\/\/sophieyanyeelau.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/headshot-795x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sophieyanyeelau.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/headshot-795x1024.jpeg 795w, 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